The noise and Arguing next door has been getting progressively worse for the last 2 months.
Note: Izzy, is the 4 year old daughter.
Saturday night November 3rd around midnight we heard banging next door, but assumed it was the kids so let it go…it went on till about 2:30 AM that I cam remember at that point I passed out (note : I had the flu this weekend).
On Sunday afternoon November 4th, Screaming and yelling started around 2 pm , an continued for several hours . Around 6pm Matt went over and took Erick to get cigarettes just to break it up for a little bit, Amanda was screaming at him if he left she would divorce him.
Sunday Night between 9:30 PM and 10:00pm I was woken was up from a NyQuil induced slumber by LOUD banging on the wall of my bedroom then knocking on my closest..
Once up, I listened I heard Amanda screaming indistinguishably, and Erick BEGGING her to leave him alone or let him leave.
At around 10:25pm after Matt and I had a talk about calling 911, I decided to go over and ask that they PLEASE take a time out..
she opened the door and as soon as i said” hey guys, please, time out?.”.
she pulled up her LEFT jacket arm and said “how dare you take his side look what he did to me … ”
and showed me 3 or 4 finger nail scratches that were going the wrong way to of been him attacking her and looked self inflicted.
(note: she showed the officer a DIFFERENT scratches then she showed me 15-20 min latter)
I told Matt I’m calling 911 I’m not dealing with it .
When the officers came , they did the interviews , there is a police report on file.
Erick was Finally allowed to leave after having been badgered for HOURS, Saturday night till noon, then again from 2pm till the police gave him passage.
I made a note to the officer that this has been going on more frequently for about 2 months and we hadn’t called before because we were afraid of her retaliating because she has been acting progressively more unstable, like she may be on Drugs .
About 10 minutes after the officers left and Erick was gone. Banging continued on the walls and objects sounded like they were being thrown next door. She came out on her porch and started screaming ”
“…….screaming indistinguishable…..”if your dogs come over hear again I’m suing you for property damage!” and a lot of unintelligible things..
I told Matt just leave it, shes angry if she is still screaming in 2 hours I’ll call the cops back..
All Sunday night we could hear her pacing “thumping” loudly in the bed room. Note she has custody of Izzy at the time.
Monday morning November 5th as Matt was leaving for work she was out again, this time yelling at Matt If I see your dogs over here I’m going to shoot them, or Poison them if I can’t get a gun , “I’ll BEHEAD them if they come over”..
I walked out told her to stop. She called me a “fat shank coward” and to come on over so she could show my a piece of her mind. And other semi-indistinguishable Physical threats. I don’t know exactly what she said but fists and “beating “ was in there I had walked back in the house. She had jumped back on the porch.
After that Matt and Erick who had come back to collect a few items for work both left. I set up my security camera and took the dogs to the park I spent most of my day out between court and AC.
I after the park , I then went to the sheriff to file an update , I was at the court house (sheriff suggested getting a protection order), and Animal Control .
Another person had already called in the threat to kill our dogs. Our shelter director saw me when I came in and knew what it was about immediately, I think she was further upset it one of her volunteers dogs that was threatened…. The threat they reported was,: “I will cut off your dogs heads, or shoot them or poison them if i can’t get a gun..”
After all that I came home around 12:00pm .
I was told by the Sheriff to officially file this with my Property manager for a record.
As I left to file with the Property manager , I met Erick in the road he was told by the sheriff he could collect his things, when he got to the house he found it in disorder and expressed he was worried about his daughter.
First section Filed with Property manager 11/5/2012 1:00pm
From the 6th till the 10th there was intermittent banging, although normally it would quite down by 8pm or so..
November 6th Erick was back to try to do some car repair work I have recordings of her badgering and threatening him while he attempted to work on the car in the driveway. I have listened to hours of him begging her to please stop, and either give him some space or let him sleep. This is done WHILE she hold Izzy and screaming at Erick. Also she would aside to Izzy that “daddy doesn’t love you”, in front of Erick trying to force a reaction.
About, 2 pm there was a large explosion and the power flickered, assumption is the power crew working about a mile down the road blew a transformer. I walked out of the house just to verify that it wasn’t closer and check for damage, I did call over to Eric who was still working on the car that it was probably just a blown transformer. Unfortunately this set off Amanda and a few seconds after I had said it sounded like a blown transformer, Amanda run out of the house screaming at Eric who had been out side all day that HE blew up the house! This started a more aggressive barrage of insults which because I had steps on my porch for a second were hurled towards me again, even after I walked back inside.
Around 3pm Erick left for work.
November 6th I didn’t feel safe to be in my own home . I didn’t feel my animals were safe, I actually left a few times just to put distance between me and Amanda . Their was still banging next door and yelling even though she was “alone” in the house , I was unsure who had Izzy at this time.
Eric came back home on the 6th after work around 7pm. Amanda immediately started yelling at him and assaulting him verbally.
We left for a few hours from 8 till 10 for dinner , she was still verbally assaulting him when we got home.
He was still begging her to stop.
Matt made an offer for him to come use our guest room to at least sleep since he had not slept for a few days and we got no peace either as long as Amanda was going thru one of these episodes. Around 10 pm we started debating weather we needed to call the Sheriff again. We asked him if he wanted to do it…
At after 11 pm we received these text messages from Erick.
We called the Sheriff shortly after this was sent, Erick in the meantime left . She chased him out of the house.
They arrived at 11:54pm November 6th
November 7th 11:24 am
Amanda’s grandparents came over, to tell me how “evil” Erick is and to not be so hard on Amanda…. I did relay to them these facts:
November 7th is day three that she has kept everyone in her and my house up all night with her banging and screaming and temper tantrum throwing .. .Telling me to go “easy” on a person who stood out on her porch not 2 days ago and Threatened to Behead my dogs.
Sunday November 11th new black Camero starts to show up more frequently.
Tuesday November 16th Thudding banging Starts during the day goes till 9:30 pm.
November 17th 2 pm
November 18th 1:00 pm Thudding banging starts it is loud enough at times to set my dogs barking .
November 18th 10:30 PM banging subsides.
November 19th 1:00pm Thudding/banging starts.
November 19th 6pm Matt asked the “new boyfriend” what was all the banging.. and new boy friend said they were hanging all the pictures back up… Amanda told “new boyfriend” , that “ old boy friend”, : “beat her and knocked all the pictures down….” (note: they have been “hanging pictures “ for four days until well after 10pm..)..
after midnight November 20th .STILLL banging . or moving furniture or doing jumping jacks or something…
nearly 2am November 20th .. the banging continues.. I can hear two adults and one child, talking and playing, shortly after another loud thud and Amanda yelling.
10:30 am November 20th thudding starts
11:33am November 20th loud banging like furniture moving or items being tossed shakes the house.
We left for the thanksgiving holiday.